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Sex is never the reason.
It is never that simple to generate what love is.., and what it means to another. I can no more control my emotions than you can. You might be able to subdue some feelings and learn not to show fear. But the inner psyche never lets you forget your most powerful interchanges. That place where you find the time` too be seen as a whole individual, and not just some regular. It is this force that draws us to another. You can feel it in your conscience knowing this is the one, and it is good. Through this very first initiation, you have now bonded with another before ever taking off a piece of cloth. You understand who they are, and what they mean to you, as they too feel new emotions and excitement` while you two share. In the opening conversations of love, there is a physical thing going on. It is what propels the male and female to bind in touches… You will touch your mate in conversation` before you will ever make love. If you do not touch the one you make love to, you are not making love at all… It is in those conversations that you realize what you want and are willing to take a chance on. We do not look on this as loss because there is a definite desire to make good on ones true motives. The motives of embracing and sharing intimate details about our selves with another. It is a relief, and a release that they will accept and protect what we say. I have spoken words this way, have you? Of course if we make a pack to keep a secret’ it is not based on today, but the future. It is in this future that we find ourselves. It is good to know some do keep their words, as it would not be right to profess love if you could not keep your word. And even in this` there are many challenges of time and lifestyle changes... It is no wonder that marriages do not last; it is a flawed conception. People join together for mutual satisfaction, yet never go beyond that to cooperation. I wonder what the real statistics of marriage would be if we applied it to “every love relation” that did not work out? I think it would be much higher. It comes down to compatibility and teamwork. No one can be in love that is alone. Yet, we will hold onto past loves because they touched us like no other. Do not ask me to act` a certain way, which I am not ready or willing to act. Is that such a big request? We must realize that for many’ it is not how many lovers you have known, but have you ever been able to say: I love you with any conviction? As I have tried and many will, we are not perfect creatures. Why I do what I do today does not make rhyme or reason, I am falling through a viodless life into the arms of someone who cares. I do not fool myself about what is important in the big picture. It is a life of passion and struggle wherein we find simple pleasures~ too take away the pain of life. Still, I have not met you; I do not know who you are. Will you be ready, as I am ready, to talk? Hold close your memories that made you happy for they where earned at a high emotional cost.
Thomas A Sutor P O Box 2343 Lompoc CA 93438 Rockhawk.com |
All written word is "The Opinion" of Thomas A. unless otherwise noted...
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