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Let love guide you to a better future
There are times we say things we do not mean. For some reason we let fear in and run with it. Maybe people who can talk whenever they feel fear do not have the trouble of those of us who have not the opportunity to get that physical connection. Those in love need to spend time together as often as they can. It strengthens the heart when two become one. It brings about a peacefulness in this tragic life, and it’s what makes us happy. When lovers are torn apart by circumstance or inability to talk it out, neither finds much happiness from day to day. Therefore, be quick to understand that your lover needs your attention as much as you need his. We are made of bright souls! Our future does not depend on what other people say, they are not living with our emotions or our closeness. They are outsiders to our romance. They have no authority to tell us how we feel, we need to trust our feelings and work toward intimacy and caring and even sacrifice. Sacrifice is not a bad thing when you understand that in the long haul, the sacrifices made today will be the foundation of tomorrow’s long lasting relationship. Too many lovers forget that it is listening to the heart of the one they enjoy that has made them so happy. Take time to celebrate that truth and never belittle your mate’s fears. Fear comes and goes, but it does have a strong influence on people. If we can see the others need when they are hurting, we can calm them down and give reassurance that this relationship is the right thing. Why should we who love deny helping the one we care about? Why would we think it is too much, when we have had times in our life when we did things we did not understand? Have not all of us made bad choices and said things we did not mean because we did not know better? Yes, we all have done these things. No one is superior, there are just days that work better than others. And if we are patient, we will be rewarded with the love we have always wanted. Do not walk away when times are tough especially if you have been honest about your affections. This life is not made of multiple opportunities to fall in love. Living alone is not what we want; it is only a good way to pretend we are happy… We want connection, yet we do not realize that it takes hard work to develop a trusting open communication. We need to reassure our love that we will be there and that no matter what, we will be there for them as long as they are faithful. Only loyalty can bring forth the richness of oneness. When you find someone who wants to learn how to love, allow them your good graces, as you would want the same.
Thomas A Sutor P O Box 2343 Lompoc CA 93436 Rockhawk.com |
All written word is "The Opinion" of Thomas A. unless otherwise noted...
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